Wendy was the mother of two children. Wendy had been feeling quite stressed out lately and started to “medicate” herself by having several wine coolers each night after she put her children to bed. After just about four months of this drinking routine, she eventually understood the fact that instead of helping her calm down and ”muddle through” her difficulties, drinking made her feel less tranquil when she awakened in the morning. This, in turn, made her feel increasingly more stressed all through the day.
After thinking about her circumstance for a few days, Wendy made up her mind to discuss her drinking situation with her best friend. In truth, roughly thirty minutes into their discussion, Wendy’s friend, Cheyenne, told her that she knew about an extremely skillful and experienced doctor at the local alcohol and drug rehab clinic. After talking to her friend, Wendy immediately got motivated to call the rehabilitation center and make an appointment.
Ten days later she finally got to meet the doctor her best friend had been talking about. After their brief introduction, Wendy explained to the physician that ever since she and her husband got divorced, she has been having a very hard time spiritually, financially, and emotionally.
At times, she felt that she was one hundred percent over the divorce. Recently, to the contrary, she has been feeling very depressed about the fact that her former husband and she couldn’t stay married and “make it”. When asked by the doctor how long she and her former husband went together before they got married, Wendy explained to the psychiatrist that Robert, her former husband, and she went out for three years and then lived together for two years before they got married.
As Wendy was talking to the doctor, she underlined the point that she really believed that she and Robert waited long enough to know one another well enough before they got married. After the children started to arrive, to the contrary, everything appeared to fall apart. Not only this but both she and Robert started to drink, and their abusive and irresponsible drinking adversely affected their love for one another, their relationship, and their finances.
When things became less than cordial between them, Robert hired a divorce lawyer and filed for a divorce. Although things were visibly not going well and even though she was habitually depressed, Wendy told the doctor that she didn’t want their relationship to come to an end. Once she was served her divorce papers, however, she knew that their relationship was over.
The physician explained to Wendy that the stress, anxiety, and tension that she has been suffering from regarding her careless and hazardous drinking are some of the common alcohol abuse effects and that the best solution for this circumstance is rehabilitation for one’s alcohol abuse. In fact, getting alcohol abuse treatment is extremely important because long-term drinking can get the individual into even more debilitating alcohol and alcoholism difficulties.
After seven or eight treatment sessions with her psychiatrist, Wendy was slowly but surely able to realize that the real cause of her stress and her depression was that she had not gotten to the bottom of her angry feelings she has for her ex-husband who had divorced her two years ago. With these insights and with the meds her physician prescribed, she eventually abstained from drinking, she started to feel substantially less depressed, and she began making more time for social activities with her friends and family. A few months after getting treatment from her doctor, she even began to date once again.
It was plain to see that Wendy had come a long way. In truth, just about five months after she stopped her treatment, Wendy had finally laid the negative emotions of her ex-husband to rest and was beginning to feel more self respect and more spiritually “sound” and psychologically “together” than she had ever felt in her life.
